Definition: Someone who leaves for a week, is a bit of a dick at the airport, doesn't call except to leave a cranky "i'm here" voice message, doesn't call back when I call him after 4 days of not hearing from him, (when he says he will), someone who is bringing more people into MY house when it already feels cramped.
People to whom by the way I don't charge rent to..only partial utilities. People who DON'T help with cleaning unless I bug and pester them(which I hate doing and shouldn't have to).
People who take this shit for granted. And never say "thank you".
I don't want fanfare, I don't want a big deal, but I do want to know that I'm not being used by a bunch of freeloading assholes. Asshole. Asshat.
Yes, this would be me throwing a literary fit.
I guess I just want to feel somewhat appreciated. Instead of all of this just being a given.
I certainly don't make a profit off of someone ELSES friends living here. With this many people living in my house I should have it Spic and fucking Span..my lawn mown and bills paid plus a little extra. But no.. I mow the lawn,(or have to HIRE someone to do it because it was put off for so long by people who promised to do it) do most of the cleaning and front people money when necessary.
What I certainly don't like is the feeling of being used. Emotionally and otherwise. And for once this isn't PMS talking, this is pure frustration.
Call me a little cranky if you will.. because I will most likely call you an Asshat in return.
I really could go on. About a whole lot of things. But I'm not.
End of Rant.
Yay for being cranky eh?
People to whom by the way I don't charge rent to..only partial utilities. People who DON'T help with cleaning unless I bug and pester them(which I hate doing and shouldn't have to).
People who take this shit for granted. And never say "thank you".
I don't want fanfare, I don't want a big deal, but I do want to know that I'm not being used by a bunch of freeloading assholes. Asshole. Asshat.
Yes, this would be me throwing a literary fit.
I guess I just want to feel somewhat appreciated. Instead of all of this just being a given.
I certainly don't make a profit off of someone ELSES friends living here. With this many people living in my house I should have it Spic and fucking Span..my lawn mown and bills paid plus a little extra. But no.. I mow the lawn,(or have to HIRE someone to do it because it was put off for so long by people who promised to do it) do most of the cleaning and front people money when necessary.
What I certainly don't like is the feeling of being used. Emotionally and otherwise. And for once this isn't PMS talking, this is pure frustration.
Call me a little cranky if you will.. because I will most likely call you an Asshat in return.
I really could go on. About a whole lot of things. But I'm not.
End of Rant.
Yay for being cranky eh?
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Date: 2005-12-21 01:03 am (UTC)Seriously, you aren't doing them or yourself any favors. They should be paying partial rent, partial utilities and have a set list of chores. Don't let them off because they're your friends - or in the end, you'll resent them enough to stop being their friend.